MENTAL STRENGTH

Not Giving A F**k About What Others Think Has Been A Game Changer For Me

When the focus is on you and what feels right, that’s all that matters

Benny Lim
Mind Cafe
Published in
6 min readNov 10, 2024

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I still remember a time when a person’s private life was exactly that — private.

This was back in the late 80s and early 90s when I was still a kid and there was no such thing as social media.

The only sources of media you had were either from the TV, radio or the newspaper — which weren’t as vast as they are now.

One would say life was a whole lot simpler then.

But once the age of the internet came about, people were no longer as coy about their personal or private lives any longer.

Blogs became a thing where people would share their most intimate thoughts on the internet (I was one of them) — things that previously would only be meant for a personal diary that people would take to their graves.

While the intimacy of information shared created a whole new way relationships were built on, it also created another thing — a stronger form of self-consciousness.

People became more self-conscious and cared a lot more about what others thought of them.

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Mind Cafe
Mind Cafe

Published in Mind Cafe

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Benny Lim
Benny Lim

Written by Benny Lim

Medium writer since 2019, writing my way to a better life, and helping you lead a better life, one article at a time. https://iambennylim.medium.com/membership

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