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The Happiness Paradox

Subconsciously, you don’t want to be happy. Here’s why.

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You are not happy because you don’t want to be. You don’t yet understand that is the case, but it is.

What is it that you and most of your peers are chasing after? Likely it is money, success, fame, prestige, or power. And why is it that you are chasing after those things? One reason: you think that once you…




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Charles Black M.D.

Charles Black M.D.

Dr. Charles Black is a general surgeon, author, photographer, outdoorsman, world traveler and fireside philosopher. Website:https://chuckbphilosophy.com

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