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Why Compliments Don’t Solve Your Girl’s Poor Body Image

A guy’s guide to becoming an ally for his girl on her body image journey.

“You’re pretty damn close to the ideal, anyway,” my boyfriend says to me, “In my opinion, you are the ideal.”

I appreciate this. It makes me feel better. But it does little to solve the underlying problem that fuels my…



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Jordin James

Trauma-informed coach helping survivors of narcissistic abuse find confidence in their true self and create happy relationships. IG + Twitter: @justjordinjames