You Are Unhappy Because You Want to Control The Uncontrollable

You Are Unhappy Because You Want to Control The Uncontrollable
An attachment to control is a source of suffering
Thomas Oppong
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May 22
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Artwork: The Watzmann by Johan Christian DahlHumans have a natural tendency to seek control and stability in their lives. We often desire to shape our circumstances, influence outcomes, and manage the variables that impact our well-being.
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Written by Thomas Oppong
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