NARCISSISM

Love-Bombed and Lost: The Cycle of Narcissistic Relationships

Reclaim unadulterated love

Amy Christie
Explore Narcissism
Published in
5 min readApr 2, 2024

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Photo by Candice Picard on Unsplash

Navigating the complexities of romantic relationships can be as thrilling as it is tumultuous. Yet, for some, the rollercoaster of emotions extends beyond ordinary highs and lows, catapulting individuals into the insidious cycle of narcissistic relationships.

In this exploration, we shine a light on the harrowing dance between partners, systematically crafted by the love bomber and a survivor. We dissect the stages of this cruel tango, from the initial adoration to the inevitable and soul-shattering discard phase, while offering solace to those who have found themselves ensnared in this web of emotional abuse.

Understanding love bombing

At the genesis of a narcissistic relationship lies a potent tool — the love bomb. Love bombing is the art of overwhelming someone with signs of adoration and affection, designed to foster a deep bond and an unquestioning commitment. With this strategy, the narcissistic partner floods their victim with praise, attention, and possibly gifts, aiming to create a dependency on their love and to monopolize their attention.

Those succumbing to love bombing may experience a euphoric blend of elation and…

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Amy Christie
Explore Narcissism

Dallasite, passionate storyteller and journalist, striving to create meaningful connections. “Every new beginning comes from some other beginning’s end”