NARCISSISM

Narcissistic Discard: 9 Warning Signs You Should Know

Setting the stage for breakup

Amy Christie
Explore Narcissism
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3 min readFeb 15, 2024

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Navigating the complexities of personal relationships can be a minefield, especially when dealing with someone who exhibits narcissistic behavior. A “discard” is a term often tied to the behavior of narcissists, referring to the sudden or calculated end of a relationship, typically leaving the other person bewildered and hurt.

Here are nine red flags to watch for that could indicate you’re dealing with a narcissistic discard:

1. Lack of empathy

At the heart of many narcissistic actions, including discarding, is a profound lack of empathy. The narcissist may be incapable of understanding or genuinely caring about how their actions affect others, leaving the discarded party feeling devalued and insignificant.

2. Shifting blame

Narcissists are skilled at avoiding responsibility. If a relationship ends with a narcissistic discard, they’ll likely find a way to shift the majority of the blame onto the former partner, effectively painting themselves as the victim or at least an innocent party in a web of circumstances beyond their control. This not only absolves them of any wrongdoing in their own mind but also controls…

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Amy Christie
Explore Narcissism

Dallasite, passionate storyteller and journalist, striving to create meaningful connections. “Every new beginning comes from some other beginning’s end”