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The Real Purpose of Life

It’s not what you think it is…and that’s a good thing!

Brain Snack #175

WeWe e are living links in a chain of wisdom, handed down through history.

One axiom developed in that chain is to…BE USEFUL.

Our sense of worth and usefulness is tied to our self-esteem…and to esteem something means to elevate it.

How do we elevate our own worth and usefulness?

How do we esteem ourselves?

Think of the items you value either for their aesthetic or functional quality.

A non-functioning grandfather clock is still valued and useful because it is a beautiful piece of furniture.

A non-functioning can opener is discarded because it is deemed useless.

Therefore, our value in life depends on our FUNCTION.

That’s a point worth repeating…

Our value in life depends on our FUNCTION.

But just what is that function?

The answer is quite simple.

When you begin to purposefully elevate others by performing acts of kindness, the spirit changes and soon doing good deeds becomes a focal point for your life…doing good begins to be the same as feeling good.

The periods of emptiness when we search for the “meaning of it all” begin to fill with acts of kindness and usefulness.

Most of us ask ourselves questions of purpose that go beyond the routines of our daily lives.

The obvious answer is to be kind to one another, to help someone in need, to perform good deeds…in short, TO BE USEFUL.

Neither wealth, fame, prestige, nor anything external can give us more than a fleeting sense of satisfaction.

The only true lasting happiness is within ourselves.

Unfortunately, this is too often the last place any of us look.

The place to improve the world is first in one’s own heart and hands and then work outward from there.

If we improve ourselves by BEING USEFUL to others…we live our lives in the best way possible.

Good deeds really do have the power to change us.

We should never consider any act that changes us as futile.

And, no good, useful deed which we have done can never be taken from us.

Good deeds have magical attributes which can turn sadness to singing and despair to joy.

Just one small selfless act benefits and elevates both the giver and the receiver.

In this high-tech, fast changing world, what is needed and what is lasting…are high-touch people who focus on contribution, and making deposits into the lives of others.


I want you to wrap your mind around the idea that your duty and primary responsibility in life is to be useful…to elevate all, big or small.

Think of ways that you can elevate your performance and usefulness as a mother, father, husband, wife, employee, salesperson or entrepreneur.

Identify every role you play in life and actively work to be more useful…to elevate everyone you come in contact with.

Be useful and elevate with words of encouragement.

Be useful and elevate by asking bigger, bolder, and better questions.

Be useful and elevate by setting an example that inspires greatness in others.

Be useful and elevate every life experience for yourself and others.

When you wake up in the morning, when you walk into a room, when you attend a meeting…set an intention to be useful, inspiring and elevating.

That’s what purposeful living is all about!

Gary Ryan Blair is creator of the 100 Day Challenge…a radical approach to goal achievement that shows people how to achieve 10X size goals by applying the methods and best practices of growth hacking. Get all the details here.

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