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The Book That Changed How I Spend Money

How One Book Changed My Relationship With Money

Zohvib
Mind Talk
Published in
4 min readJun 29, 2023

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Ever since Gutenberg’s press started churning out volumes, people have been profoundly influenced by the written word. It can shape who we are, dictate our beliefs, and guide our actions.

It’s often these invisible tendrils of influence that help us grow as individuals and society as a whole.

Recently, I’ve been so lucky as to stumble upon a book that drastically shifted my approach toward spending money.

The book that changed my life isn’t some hifalutin economic treatise or a dry manual on finance.

Rather, it’s a somewhat humble, straight-talking guide entitled “Money: Master the Game,” penned by the master motivator himself, Tony Robbins.

The uniqueness of this book is a testament to its power.

Dollar bills aren’t just green pieces of paper; they are deceptively powerful entities that govern much of our lives. We chase them, we hoard them, and at times, we spend them like there’s no tomorrow.

But what if I told you that I used to be a part of that mindless cycle of earning and spending, until this book came into my life like a meteor, a welcome disruptor, and completely shattered my financial ignorance?

Brace yourself, because I’m about to share with you the key takeaways that have changed the way I spend money.

Before “Money: Master the Game,” I was like most folks. I earned, I saved a little, but mostly, I spent.

Now, don’t get me wrong, there’s nothing inherently evil about spending money. It’s yours, you’ve earned it, and you’re entirely within your rights to enjoy it.

But what Robbins’ book made me realize was that there’s a vast difference between spending money and spending money wisely.

The first key concept that Robbins introduces is the idea of financial freedom. Sounds cliché, right?

But what struck me was the way he defines it: “Financial freedom is the ability to live the lifestyle you desire without having to work or rely on anyone else for money.”

This reframing gave me a fresh perspective on my financial goals.

It wasn’t just about hoarding a stack of money or aimlessly climbing the corporate ladder; it was about creating a life that’s genuinely free from the shackles of financial worry.

To achieve this, Robbins emphasizes the importance of understanding the financial game. Think of money as a game of chess.

Would you participate in a game without knowing the rules or how each piece moves? Unlikely, right?

Then why, pray to tell, do we handle our hard-earned money without understanding the rules that govern it?

The book illuminates those rules, guiding the reader to make money work for them instead of the other way around.

Diving deeper, the book champions the concept of compounding, the ‘eighth wonder of the world’ as dubbed by Einstein himself.

The principle is simple: your money makes more money. Over time, even small amounts can grow into substantial wealth if invested wisely.

The trick is to start early, remain consistent, and let time do its magic.

In my pre-Robbins life, I used to shy away from investing, partly out of ignorance, partly out of fear.

I held onto a naive belief that stashing money under my metaphorical mattress would lead to financial security.

“Money: Master the Game” taught me that investing isn’t just for Wall Street wolves; it’s a crucial part of achieving financial freedom for every John and Jane Doe.

Moreover, Robbins unearths the hidden traps of fees that slowly chip away at your hard-earned wealth.

It was a wake-up call for me when he explained how even a seemingly insignificant 1% fee can eat away almost a third of your investments over time.

Since then, I’ve become vigilant about fees, scrutinizing every financial product for its true cost.

One of the most transformative lessons from the book was about giving.

You might be wondering, “Isn’t this about spending money?” It is, but hear me out. Robbins asserts that the secret to living is giving.

It seems counterintuitive to donate or help others when you’re trying to accumulate wealth.

But Robbins argues that by contributing to others, even when it feels like you have nothing to spare, you are creating a mindset of abundance.

That mindset, in turn, opens the door for wealth to flow into your life. And I’ll tell you this — It works.

The practice of giving has brought not just a sense of abundance but also fulfillment into my life.

Robbins’ book didn’t just change my spending habits; it revolutionized my relationship with money.

It turned me from a spendthrift into a wise spender and an intelligent investor.

It opened my eyes to the importance of understanding the financial game, leveraging compounding, avoiding excessive fees, and embracing the spirit of giving.

It wasn’t a get-rich-quick scheme or a crash course in stinginess. Instead, it was a robust financial education that should be a standard issue for every human being.

So, that’s it; my transformational journey from financial ignorance to enlightenment was brought on by a book. Sounds dramatic? Well, it was!

It was an awakening, a revelation, a change that has influenced me so profoundly that I felt compelled to share it with all of you.

If you’re in the cycle of earning and spending without gaining any real wealth or freedom, I wholeheartedly recommend you give “Money: Master the Game” a read.

Who knows, it might just change your life the way it changed mine.

Here’s to mastering the game of money and crafting a life of abundance and freedom.

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Zohvib
Mind Talk

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