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7 Tips to Make People Feel Comfortable Opening Up To You
We all have moments when we want to open up to someone, but the words just won’t come. It’s like there’s an invisible wall holding us back.
If you’ve ever been on the other side of that wall, wishing you could get someone to share what’s on their mind, then this is for you.
Here are some handpicked tips to make people feel comfortable sharing their story with you.
1. Show Genuine Interest
People can sense when you’re truly engaged and when you’re just going through the motions.
Solidify your interest by maintaining eye contact, asking thoughtful follow-up questions and actively listening to what the other person is saying.
Your genuine curiosity and attentiveness will make them feel valued and more inclined to share.
2. Create a Safe Environment
Try to make sure the physical and emotional space is conducive to open dialogue.
Avoid interruptions and distractions, and make it clear that you are fully present and available to listen without judgment or criticism.
