Take Control of Your Mind and Create Your Reality

How Your Mind Shapes Your Reality

Susan Bell
Mindful Living Today
4 min readMar 15, 2023

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Our minds are powerful tools that shape our perception of reality. In fact, the way we think and perceive the world around us influences our behaviors, experiences, and overall quality of life. If we can understand how the mind creates our reality then we can use this knowledge to lead a more fulfilling life.

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While we’re awake the conscious mind is in the driver’s seat. When morning comes, the brain creates serotonin, and our mind starts to process thoughts. We have more than 60,000 thoughts a day. Most of these thoughts are on auto-pilot as we develop routines and live the same life day after day. These routines form pathways in the brain and become ‘well-worn’ and familiar. That’s why weeks, months, even years later we find we are in the same place, doing the same things, and wonder how so much time has passed nothing has changed.

One way the mind creates our reality is through our beliefs. Beliefs are formed through our experiences, upbringing, culture, and other factors. They shape how we view ourselves, others, and the world. For instance, if we believe we are not good enough, we may experience feelings of inadequacy and doubt our abilities. On the other hand, if we believe in ourselves and our abilities, we are more likely to take action toward our goals and achieve success.

Beliefs can be both positive and negative and have a profound impact on our lives. If we hold limiting beliefs, such as “I’m not smart enough” or “I’ll never be successful,” we can sabotage our own success and prevent ourselves from achieving our full potential. On the other hand, if we have empowering beliefs, such as “I’m capable of achieving anything I set my mind to” or “I’m worthy of love and respect,” we can propel ourselves toward success and fulfillment.

To change our beliefs, we need to become aware of them and challenge them. It’s important to ask if our beliefs are serving us or holding us back. If they are holding us back, we can reframe them into more empowering beliefs. For instance, if we believe we’re not smart enough, we can reframe that belief into “I may not know everything, but I can learn and grow.” By changing our beliefs, we can change the way we perceive ourselves and our abilities, which can change our reality.

Another way the mind creates our reality is through our perceptions. They shape how we interpret and respond to the world around us. For instance, if we perceive a situation as threatening or dangerous, our body may react with a fight-or-flight response. However, if we perceive a situation as safe and enjoyable, our body may respond with relaxation and pleasure.

A powerful tool to change your reality is visualization. Visualization is a technique that involves creating mental images of our desired outcomes. Your brain can not tell the difference between a real event and an imagined event. By visualizing our goals, we can train our minds to focus on the desired outcome. See it as if it has already happened. Last, add the emotion of being grateful. Now we have the secret formula!

When visualizing, make the images as vivid and detailed as possible. We should focus on how we feel, what we see, and what we hear. This detail creates an emotional connection to our goals. Visualization can also help us overcome limiting beliefs and negative self-talk. For instance, if we’re struggling with self-doubt, we can visualize ourselves succeeding and feeling confident. By doing so, we train our minds to focus on positive outcomes rather than negative ones.

Finally, the mind creates our reality through the power of intention. The intention is the conscious decision to focus our energy and attention on a particular outcome. When we set intentions, we tell our subconscious mind that we are committed to achieving our goals. Consistent focus can help us stay motivated, even when we face challenges or setbacks.

To set intentions, we should start by defining our goals and identifying the steps we need to take to achieve them. By focusing on positive outcomes, we can train our minds to focus on abundance and success, rather than scarcity and lack. For instance, instead of saying “I don’t want to be broke,” we should say “I am financially abundant and prosperous.”

By understanding how the mind creates our reality, we can become more aware of our thoughts, beliefs, and perceptions, and use this knowledge to create a more fulfilling life. By changing our beliefs, reframing our perceptions, visualizing our goals, and setting intentions, we can train our minds to focus on positive outcomes and achieve success in any area of life. So, let’s take control of our minds and create the reality we truly desire!

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Susan Bell
Mindful Living Today

Inspirational writer, and business coach. Starting each day with a handful of sunshine & willing to share it with you.