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Balancing Success and Happiness
True happiness comes from balancing external achievements with internal well-being rather than relying solely on success to fill emotional gaps
The Paradox of Success
One of the most common tensions we face is the desire for success and the need to feel like we’re enough. It’s easy to assume that a successful life equals a happier life.
But we often sacrifice our happiness for success and expect it to bring us fulfillment. The catch is that failure can make us unhappy. Yet, success does not guarantee happiness.
I’ve noticed a recurring pattern in my work with clients — and, if I am honest, observing my past. Many people learn early on that their worth depends on their performance.
This belief fuels their relentless pursuit of a desired life. It also drives their escape from a feared one.
This fear of inadequacy drives them forward, but at what cost?
The High Cost of High Achievement
Successful people are often characterized by their careers, financial independence, and social status.
