7 Signs they’re Not the One.


I have mixed feelings about the concept of “the one.”

I find that believing in the one can be limiting and sometimes even…hurtful.

I’m afraid that when we believe in the one, we forget that the one can easily turn into not the one.

People change. We change. And letting go of the one is hard — so hard that we choose to hold on…



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