Ghosting, Icing & Simmering: the Relationship Trends that are Hurting Us.

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Yesterday, I spent the night reading ”The State of Affairs” by Esther Perel.

In case you haven’t read it yet (how come you haven’t?), the book is about modern relationships and affairs.

I was having my hot cup of tea and cuddling my Irish Setter doggo when I came…




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