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Relationships, Divorce, Grief, & Loneliness

How to Unhook from a Toxic Lover & Move the Hell On.

How to Unhook from a Toxic Lover & Move the Hell On.

Toxic lovers are everywhere.

Elephant Journal

Aug 7

5 Common Mistakes we all Make in our Relationships.

5 Common Mistakes we all Make in our Relationships.

We all deserve a relationship that makes us happy, long-term.

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Aug 4

The Best Explanation of Cheating I have ever Heard.

The Best Explanation of Cheating I have ever Heard.

“I love my wife/husband; we are best friends and happy together, but I am having an affair.”

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Aug 3

If they Want to Leave, Let them Go.

If they Want to Leave, Let them Go.

I would like to believe that lovers are bound to stay.

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Aug 2

What I Learned from my 16 Failed “Marriages.”

What I Learned from my 16 Failed “Marriages.”

I’ve been married 16 times.

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Aug 1

The (Sexiest) Quality that Tells Us our Partner just might be Worth Keeping.

The (Sexiest) Quality that Tells Us our Partner just might be Worth Keeping.

When something’s good for me, I love to run from it.

Elephant Journal

Jul 31

This is the Best Relationship Advice from Frida Kahlo’s Father.

This is the Best Relationship Advice from Frida Kahlo’s Father.

There’s a scene in “Frida” when Kahlo talks with her father, Guillermo, about love.

Elephant Journal

Jul 28

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Feeling Heartbroken? — Get Over It.

Feeling Heartbroken? — Get Over It.

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Jul 27

7 Myths about Intimate Relationships that are Making us Miserable.

7 Myths about Intimate Relationships that are Making us Miserable.

We all have defined expectations of how a relationship should operate.

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Jul 26

21 Ways to Let Go of Someone we Love.

21 Ways to Let Go of Someone we Love.

I’m someone who holds on — tight.

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Jul 25

Ghosting, Icing & Simmering: the Relationship Trends that are Hurting Us.

Ghosting, Icing & Simmering: the Relationship Trends that are Hurting Us.

Yesterday, I spent the night reading The State of Affairs by Esther Perel.

Elephant Journal

Jul 24

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