All about Gemini: Personality Traits in Life & in Love

Modern Mystic
Modern Mystic & the World
6 min readMay 21, 2022
Gemini Zodiac sign astrological symbol surrounded by planets
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Intellectually curious and versatile, Gemini is the social butterfly of the Zodiac.

The quick-witted twins are constantly juggling multiple affairs across the board: careers, jobs, hobbies, social groups, and even partners.

Geminis possess the unique ability to adapt to a myriad of social situations and can talk about almost anything.

They may not be experts on all subjects, but it often seems they know a little bit about everything and anything under the sun.

Geminis love to socialise. They rarely miss an opportunity to network and mingle.

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They usually possess stellar social skills and can impress almost anyone with their ability to communicate and get their point across.

Geminis know how to crack a good joke. They are super entertaining and usually find themselves at the heart of the party.

Some accuse Geminis of being too shallow and superficial.

They get this bad rep only because they are quick thinkers and get bored very quickly.

A Gemini may not have the staying power of a Taurus, but it surely knows how to converse and be heard.

These skills are highly valuable in the age of social media and new technologies.

Gemini Facts

· Sun in Gemini: May 21 — June 21

· Gemini symbol: the Twins

· Gemini ruling planet: Mercury

· Gemini element: Air

· Gemini modality: Mutable

· Gemini polarity: Sagittarius

· Gemini ruling house: 3rd house of communication, media, local travels, siblings, neighbours and extended family

· Part of the body ruled by Gemini: hands, arms, shoulders and lungs

· Gemini key traits: Chatty, witty, intelligent, versatile, quick thinker

Mercury — the ruler of Gemini

The planet Mercury governs our mind, our thoughts, our learning abilities, processing of information, speech, communication and technology.

Mercury is one of the personal planets and has a significant influence on our Birth Chart.

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Think of Mercury as a software to your physical body. It has a massive effect on how we interact with the world, how we process and express our thoughts.

If we look at the Mythology behind Hermes (the counterpart to Mercury), he had all the knowledge and was the traveller between two worlds.

Mercury takes our internal self and expresses it out into the world.

Our internal, private self is represented mainly by our natal Moon.

The Moon governs our creativity, our emotions, and feelings.

Mercury is the messenger who processes and expresses all of it out into the world.

Mercury Retrograde in a Nutshell

Mercury retrograde is one of the most talked about astrological events that happens 3–4 times a year.

Despite the bad rep, Mercury retrogrades should not be feared.

We can use this energy to our advantage to up-date and up-grade the way we think and process information.

Mercury retrogrades are great for letting go of certain things, thoughts, limiting beliefs that are no longer relevant and stopping us from living our life to the fullest.

Think of it as a software upgrade process on your smart phone. Just think about how many times you need to upgrade software on your phone or computer to ensure they perform at their highest capacity.

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So it is only natural that during Mercury retrogrades things are slowing down. It takes time to upgrade the system to the next level.

As with our smart phones, upgrading doesn’t happen instantly. It is going to take time to complete certain tasks.

Keywords to describe Mercury retrograde: re-evaluate, revisit, rethink, re-do, re-organize, rearrange, re-position, re-launch.

So make sure you engage in these activities more often than initiating brand new things.

Top 3 Gemini Personality Traits:

1. Quick-witted Communicator

Geminis are born communicators and conversationalists.

They love to engage in debates.

Those with prominent Gemini placements (especially Gemini risings and those with their natal Mercury in Gemini) are super gifted when it comes to working with large amounts of information.

They know how to process and extract the most valuable content out of anything.

This trait makes them talented journalists, bloggers, content creators and professional writers.

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2. Stellar Networker

The twins certainly know to go places and meet new faces!

Those with prominent Gemini placements in their birth chart love to network and make new acquaintances wherever they go.

This makes them excellent sales people.

They love to be at the heart of the party and engage in all sorts of conversations.

Geminis have a way with words.

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They are capable of not only processing a lot of information but also extracting the gist out of it and delivering it in the most engaging way possible.

3. Inconsistent Juggler

On the negative side, Geminis can be quite inconsistent, shallow and superficial. It’s vital to stay focused and use the power of your versatile mind to its full potential.

It’s great to tap into several subjects at once but there is a danger to get scattered.

The mental stimulation of multitasking is like a drug to a Gemini.

Self-discipline and focus are super important to control this negative Gemini trait.

Once mastered, those with prominent Gemini placements can achieve phenomenal success, especially when it comes to any type of communication (writing, investigative journalism, blogging, social media, content creation, etc).

Core Gemini skills are trending across the board these days. Make sure to use them to their full potential!

Gemini in Love

Geminis sometimes get a bad rep for being unfaithful. They are natural flirts and love to meet new people.

However, it doesn’t mean that all those with prominent Gemini placements are cheats and are not capable of being loyal.

They do love variety, though.

It’s vital to have a busy social life if you want to keep your Gemini partner happy.

Intellectual sex is as important to a Gemini as the physical contact.

They love with their mind first and foremost.

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Geminis usually look very youthful and much younger than their biological age.

This together with their sharp, witty mind makes them very attractive and popular no matter how old they are.

They are never short of admirers at any age!

Netflix and chill is not something a typical Gemini will be excited about. Invite them to a standup comedy show, art gallery opening or a business networking event. Join a book club together.

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They will really appreciate your thoughtful effort!

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