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Deep Sex

An introduction and kickstarter for experiencing deeper sex.

6 min readMar 3, 2025

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Have you ever had deep sex? I’m not talking about how far a penis goes into a vagina or ass. I’m talking about deeper sex. Deeper intimacy and connection. When two people or more become one.

It sounds a little bit like I am talking about tantra, and to a certain extent, some of what I’m going to write about overlaps with tantric practices, but this is different.

This is about the connection between you and your lover.

Let’s first explore what deep sex is not.

Deep sex is not a quicky at a party where you gent bent over the edge of an upstairs bed and filled with cum as quickly as possible before someone realizes you are both gone.

Deep sex is not a tired, married couple fucking before they go to bed just to alleviate some stress.

Deep sex is not am impromptu blow job or pussy eating between friends or lovers and it’s not a longer session in which you are simply exploring different sexual positions or techniques.

If it’s not anything like this, then what is it?

It’s more. A lot more. Before we dive into what it is and the steps you can take to achieve it, I want to make one thing clear. Deep sex can happen with anyone. The…

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Modern Sexuality
Modern Sexuality

Published in Modern Sexuality

Exploring the links between life, happiness, and sex.

Vee Sullivan
Vee Sullivan

Written by Vee Sullivan

Writer and blogger of sex, sexuality and life.

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