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Free-Use Sex and Becoming A Sex Object

A practical introduction to free-use sex and sexual objectification kinks.

7 min readFeb 20, 2025

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Becoming nothing more than a sex object. Why free use is gaining popularity, and is it for you? Let’s find out!

Before we get into the nitty titty gritty, let’s discuss what this means.

Free Use: Free use is the ultimate objectification. You are giving yourself up completely to a partner or partners so that they can use you and your body any way they like. This is the most basic definition, but for the purposes of this article, it suffices perfectly.

Is free use truly free use? No, it’s not. Before engaging in such activities, it’s critical that communication is embedded into the play. Consent is not optional. Free-use play still requires consent for all potential acts and a list of acts that are not on the table. Then it isn’t really free use, then, right? Yes and no. This is a kink or fetish, and accordingly, consent and communication need to play a major role. When done correctly, the experience of free use can be just that…free use.

Ok, we know what it is, but why? We’ve been preached to our entire lives to be strong and independent. That might be part of it.

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Modern Sexuality
Modern Sexuality

Published in Modern Sexuality

Exploring the links between life, happiness, and sex.

Vee Sullivan
Vee Sullivan

Written by Vee Sullivan

Writer and blogger of sex, sexuality and life.

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