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How Kinky Are You?
Vanilla sex is great, but we all need spice in our lives.
How KINKY are you?
Society has programmed us to believe that vanilla sex is mainstream. For those who don’t know what “vanilla” sex is, it’s typically your run-of-the-mill sex, where a man sticks his penis into a vagina. Now, that’s overly basic, and vanilla sex can encompass same-sex interactions, blowjobs, and eating pussy. Some will argue that oral sex falls outside of vanilla, and of course, anything same-sex is immediately taboo to some.
For the purposes of this discussion, I’m considering vanilla sex as your basic sex act, which includes oral. Where do we go from here? We’re about to get kinky.
Societal norms don’t like us talking about kinks and ways that we get pleasure that don’t involve a man pumping his load into a pussy. I have theories on why this is that I will explore in a future piece. BUT, and this is a big BUT, people are way kinkier than we realize.
Did you know that the fantasy romance genre of books is more popular than ever? In general, romance is popular, but fantasy books take things to a whole new level. I’ll add that these books have a cult-like following. I’m not joking. And it’s not the freaky people you would expect, either. It’s housewives, businesswomen, moms, grandmoms etc. Every…