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Is Porn Hurting Your Cock?

Is porn killing your cock? It might be.

Why am I writing about this? Because I had lunch with a male friend yesterday, and we talked about some of his ongoing sexual issues. This is a male friend I’ve slept with before, and we share many of the same interests in sexuality, so our conversations typically end up within that realm.

I asked him if he’s had any good pussy lately because that’s what friends do, right? His eyes shifted down for a moment, and I immediately knew something was up before he even opened his mouth.

Here is the gist of what he told me. His work-life balance was severely out of whack for several months, and he didn’t prioritize sexual relationships. In essence, he went several months without getting laid. What he did instead was start watching porn.

I should be more specific because the definition of porn has certainly changed, at least in my mind, over the past 5–7 years.

I know some people hate my tangents, but I’m going to go there anyway. Let’s talk about porn for a moment. Porn used to be something you would buy or rent on a VHS tape or go to watch in a theater with an unmarked door in an alley off the main strip. Porn was produced and sold. We had racks of “dirty” magazines in gas stations. That is what mainstream porn used to be. Sure, porn has been around forever in…