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Sexual/Social Battery Running Low? Here are Four Things To Help.

It happens to all of us, here are the steps I take to recharge my battery.

4 min readFeb 26, 2025

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Confession time.

I haven’t been fucked in a while and I’m actually ok with that. My social battery is running low, and the thought of human interaction, even from some of my regular partners, both male and female, just doesn’t tickle my fancy right now.

Listen, I talk a lot about sex, and getting fucked and going out and trying new things, but sometimes our minds, hearts and bodies need a break. Sexual encounters, while mostly amazing, can be draining, especially for empaths like me. It’s ok to take a break. It’s ok to say no when someone you usually love to fuck sends you a pic of his rock hard cock that usually makes you salivate. Ok, it still made me salivate, but again, I just wasn’t feeling it.

Exploring and enjoying your sexuality is only beneficial when the timing is right. I’ve been avoiding people, even some close friends, for a little while just because that battery is recharging at a pace slower than usual. Sex right now would not only drain what little I have left in the battery but would likely break it. It’s much easier to charge up the social/sexual battery than it is to replace it entirely. I know this from experience…

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Modern Sexuality
Modern Sexuality

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Exploring the links between life, happiness, and sex.

Vee Sullivan
Vee Sullivan

Written by Vee Sullivan

Writer and blogger of sex, sexuality and life.

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