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Three Reasons Your Spouse Is Cheating on You — Or Should Be

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Vee Sullivan
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4 min readFeb 28, 2024

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Yeah, your spouse is probably cheating on you. If not, they should be. Maybe it’s not physical…yet. But the desires are there, I can all but guarantee it. Why, you ask? I’ll tell you. These are the hard-to-hear reasons that your spouse is cheating on you — or should be.

The grass is greener… Yup, you’ve heard the saying before. The grass is always greener on the other side of the fence. Why is this such a popular phrase? Because human tendencies are to always want what we can’t have and to want the next best thing.

Think about it. Have you ever window-shopped? If you don’t know what that means, it’s when you go shopping for items that you know you can’t have. Maybe it’s money that prevents you from being able to have it, or circumstances. I know I’ve gone to places to look at all the puppies and to dream about taking one home even though it’s not feasible for me to do so. Dreaming and wanting are a part of our DNA. The more we can’t have something, the more we want it.

Let me ask you another question. Have you ever made a large purchase? Something that was perfect. I’ll use a car as an example. You finally get the new car you’ve been dreaming of and it’s perfect. Then you see one in a color you want, or you see one with features that you don’t…

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Vee Sullivan
Vee Sullivan

Written by Vee Sullivan

Writer and blogger of sex, sexuality and life.

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