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You Need Sex Goals; Here’s How to Set Them
Everyone should have sexual goals.
What?! Sex goals? What the heck am I talking about? I’ll get to that in a moment. But first…
The infamous Vee tangent is coming. I promise we will get to the sex part! Please stick with me while we set the stage for what I really want to talk about.
Goals are an integral part of success in anything we do. If you ever meet with a life coach or professional coach in any capacity, one of the first things they are going to do is ask about your goals. They will ask you what your goals are and then tell you that you are wrong.
I’m not kidding.
Someone might say that one of their goals is to be financially secure, which is a very valid goal to have, right? Well, yes, but also no. Your coach will not accept such a goal as a goal because it’s not specific enough. There is a thing called SMART goals that walks you through how to create good, specific goals. SMART stands for Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Relevant, and Time-bound. Every goal we have should follow this model if we ever want to reach our desired end state. So, let’s break this down a little more.
A goal should be specific. Financially secure is not specific because what financial security means to me is not what it means to you. It…
