A Woman’s Crown in Life

Friska Riani
Modern Women
Published in
2 min readApr 14, 2022
Photo by Autumn Goodman on Unsplash

I’m not sure how to find this topic, so I’m going to share it here. When we talk about women, we never stop, and there are so many topics to cover. However, in this publication, I will discuss A Woman’s Crown in Life.

Because it’s an invisible crown, you don’t need to buy it or wear it on your head. As women, we have standards and values by which we live our lives. Perhaps there are some expectations for you to be attractive and good-looking. There’s nothing wrong with it, but remember that we should also be concerned about our insides.

Not only should you concentrate physically, but you should also concentrate on your heart and your soul. It takes time to have a beautiful heart because you must water it from the inside and it takes the right person to see it.

Outer looks fade away, and I know that you’ve heard these words a few times. Keep in mind that we are beautiful in our own way.

Do you know that what comes from within shines out? People will feel comfortable and loved, and you’ll always be missed because of your loving, kindness, and faithfulness.

Do you know that we already have a beautiful heart and soul? But, it’s corrupted by our society’s standards, conditioning, or competition.

Stop comparing your prettiness to other women.

Even when you try to make over your face, pretty faces are everywhere. The more you compare your looks to other women, the more miserable you feel. We have our own looks, our own style, and so on. Don’t think that you’re not pretty enough. Be grateful that you were born to be a unique person.

It’s about how you see yourself.

First, feel comfortable with yourself. You need to accept all of your scars, your imperfections, and even your gloomy days. Don’t feel guilty when you feel it, because every woman always goes through that gloomy moment.

Be assertive, yet kind.

No matter what the situation is, just be kind to everyone and don’t expect anything in return. When we want to talk to others, we choose our words carefully. When we’re with people, just be honest, and stand up for yourself without being aggressive.

Invest in yourself with spirituality and emotional stability.

These things are important. From within, it helps you shine, and your whole life will be different. If we’re connected to our God, who created us, we know how to truly treat people, and trust me, there’s divine prettiness in your face. And with stable emotions, we can face anything with so much calmness.

Let everything come from within yourself first, your inner beauty, that lasts forever.

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