How To Get Over a Breakup Quickly

Stop rewriting history in your past relationship and get on with your beautiful life!

Harlyn Hannah
Modern Women

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Ok so we have all been there. There is not a single person who can say they have not been been hurt, possibly completely gutted, by a painful breakup. We have either been broken up with by someone we truly loved or forced to do the breaking up as we were given no other options in improving the relationship. It can be the worst, most devastating blow that hits us so hard. We are not even sure how we are going to make it through another day. Or even another hour. And we can barely stop thinking about this person long enough for us to catch our breath and wonder how we are going to function at all. It feels almost worse than physical pain and much harder to bounce back from.

How do you get back to your wonderful amazing self and your beautiful life the way it was before you met this person?

  • First, stop romanticizing about how great what the relationship seems like now in hindsight and start remembering the reality of how it actually was. There was a reason the breakup had to happen. Things were not exactly going well. Think about what was actually transpiring that was a catalyst to the events leading up to the break up ?
  • Release the expectations you had of what you wanted…

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Harlyn Hannah
Modern Women

Single mom of 2 and Operations Manager by day looking to manifest the happily ever after 🥰. In a world where you can choose to be anything choose to be kind