In Marriage, When a Woman is Completely Desperate, Her Revenge Is Far Harsher Than Divorce
The silent storm: unleashing a woman’s fury in marriage
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The sun doesn’t set in one day, and a woman’s disappointment in a relationship doesn’t accumulate in one day either.
When a woman is emotionally wounded to the extreme and completely disappointed, her revenge is far more ruthless than divorce.
In real life, we encounter all kinds of people, especially in relationships. Finding someone to spend a lifetime with is a blessing. If not, our marriage life will inevitably be painful.
Initially, women wish for long-lasting happiness in a marriage. But life is not a fairy tale, and not all love turns out as perfect as imagined.
A woman’s despair doesn’t come in a day. Prolonged loss can turn a woman’s heart to ashes in a relationship. In marriage, when a woman is utterly desperate, her actions can defy reason.
Hedy Meng, 40 years old this year, met her husband through a gathering when she was 20.
Her husband fell in love at first sight and pursued her in various ways from the start.
Initially, Hedy Meng did not have any good feelings for him and repeatedly rejected him.
No matter what he did, she was not moved because he was not the one she liked.
Despite her rejections, he persisted relentlessly.
Finally, under his intense pursuit, she was touched by his persistence and tried to accept the relationship.
Two years into their relationship, they decided to get married.
Before marriage, this man promised to love and cherish her for a lifetime.
Hedy Meng thought marriage would bring her happiness, but it turned out to be the beginning of her nightmare.
He was obedient before marriage but changed completely afterward, showing no interest in anything she said and even resorting to physical violence at times.
Even during Hedy Meng’s pregnancy, her husband laid hands on her.
Unable to bear it, Hedy Meng chose to remain silent for the sake of the child.
Though she suffered greatly in this relationship, she still wholeheartedly devoted herself.
She hoped her husband would change one day, but her efforts seemed unappreciated and disrespected by him.
As time passed, the husband became increasingly worse. She raised the child alone, as he showed no concern. Hedy Meng once found ambiguous messages between him and other women on his phone, further fueling her anger.
Considering the child’s young age, she did not make a scene. Since then, she gave up on her husband completely and decided to retaliate to force him out of her life.
She quietly collected evidence of her husband’s infidelity. Facing his insults and disrespect, she remained silent. The two ended up in court for divorce, with her husband being ordered to leave due to his wrongdoings.
Deep down, Hedy Meng was not satisfied with this outcome. She felt she had spent so many years of her youth on this man, and now, all the wealth gained back couldn’t compensate. She didn’t seek material things but rather hoped he would understand that his actions came with consequences.
When a woman truly loves you, she is willing to do anything for you.
Love should not be taken for granted. In real life, relationships should be pure and beautiful.
Most of the time, women are soft-hearted despite their sharp tongues.
When a woman gives her all to love you, she hopes you will cherish her in return.
A happy marriage requires mutual dedication.
When a woman is completely disappointed in a relationship, nothing you do can make her change her mind.
Human patience has limits. If a woman starts compromising her principles and boundaries in front of you, it means she truly loves you.
In this world, love is encountered, not demanded. When you meet someone who cherishes and loves you, never let them down because some people, once lost, will never return.
Roland once said, “We don’t need to force love, but we must take responsibility for marriage.” When you truly understand this, you grasp the meaning of love.
Why do some women become resolute after divorce? The answer is simple: you have utterly disappointed her.
Any girl who still holds a bit of love for you cannot bear to leave you.
The person who once loved you so much ends up estranged from you, which is the greatest tragedy in love.
We all hope to find someone to spend a lifetime with. Some are lucky, some are not.
In any case, we must believe that love may be late, but it will never be absent.
While in love, we must cherish it. In losing love, we should accept it openly.
Everything is in our hands. Whether we grow old together depends on each individual’s attitude toward love.