A Woman's Attractive Photos Aren't For You
It’s Not an Invitation — It’s Just a Picture
Gentlemen, I’ve got news for you — if a girl posts attractive, seductive, or perhaps even risque photos of herself online, those are not for you. Allow me to explain…
Browsing around Medium and the internet elsewhere enough, and you'll see a lot of conversation taking place about men being entitled to sex, or men being entitled to women's bodies, and in reality, most men actually act like they are.
Maybe it’s ego, maybe it’s sexuality presenting as entitlement, but either way, it’s not a nice thing to do under any circumstances. Unless someone specifically states that they want to send you pictures specifically for you, their pictures are for them.
I know porn culture would have you believe otherwise, but porn isn’t reality.
From the perspective of a man, this concept is very hard for us guys to understand from within it, it's like an intellectual mental block we have, like many other questionable behaviors that we humans have, where it feels natural, and our manipulation doesn't feel like manipulation...but it absolutely is manipulation.
I’m not bringing this up to scold anybody, but I am saying it so that we may admit when we’re wrong like responsible adults and become…
