“Let’s See Where Things Go” is One of the Biggest Lies Told in Dating History
When we know better we do better!
We’re often told to go with the flow, don’t rush things and enjoy the thrill of dating. So as a female navigating dating apps, speed dates, and blind dates, I was always cautious never to appear too eager. You don’t want to scare the suitor away, right… Right!
So when I found myself falling for Charles, I played it cool. And like a high-value lady, I waited for the question… Would you be my girlfriend?
Let me give you some context.
The first time I met Charles, we got along like two peas in a pod. The was endless flirting, 2am calls, and inside jokes. It honestly felt like I had found the yin to my yang.
I was so happy. I couldn’t help but imagine the future: walking down the aisle, carrying our first child and how he’d be as a father.
Though we were not yet official, our moments together were magical, and I was not about to destroy it with the question …What are we.
One lazy Sunday afternoon, as we played a game of snakes and ladders the conversation went to how our lives were so wonderfully intertwined. I honestly thought he was going to pop the question.