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I Went to a Kink Club and Spent The Night Alone

I didn’t need to interact with people, just take in their energy

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Last month, I went to a kink club night. That’s right, we went out! There was dancing, drinking, play-rooms, and getting the chance to see people I hadn’t seen in person since before Lockdown, or even in person! The kind of night out we could only dream of this time last year.




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