Spirituality
Destiny holds the key, but...
You can do your karma and Enjoy the destiny
Have you ever wondered most things just happen no matter what you do? and we spend time wondering What if I had done this or done that? Can we really modify anything or we can just let it go?
Is our fate fixed by destiny?
I don't think so, We can always modify our density up to an extent.
Story: Goat who died of hunger
A goat was promised she would get a lot of green grass all the time. She was once tied to a pole by her master with a long cord wide enough to reach a lot of grass all around, but all that was required of her was to move around the circle and get grass, not sit at one place and let grass come to her. She choose to sit at one place and waited for the grass to come to her, which never did and she died of hunger.
When I fail ( and I know I will in life ), it should never be due to a lack of trying ….
How to deal with adverse outcomes in life?
One of the best things to do in our life is to be kind to ourselves and enjoy outcomes whatever they may be. I know it sounds easy to say and very hard to do. Can we train ourselves to do so?
One thing my life so far told me, is we can never control outcomes of anything in our life ( we might feel so but we don't ), but what we can do is control how we react to such outcomes.
Once we start to enjoy and stay calm in every situation, we deal with them in a much better way.
Story: Someone hits your car and runs away?
Now, how do you deal with this? I was supposed to reach the hospital at 7 am when one biker hits my car causing a lot of damage. I was tense and angry. ( who would not )
My Boss and wife came up with the same words, thank god you are not hurt, don't worry about Car. Once we realize there is always a positive side to negative things ( Things can always go worse than what they actually are ) we can react in a much better way.
Accepting things as they are and wanting to do better is probably the only way to long-lasting happiness.
Dr. Abhishek Laddha
