DOES HAPPINESS COME TO US BY ACCIDENTS OR WE CAN MAKE OURSELVES HAPPY IF WE WANT TO? IN WHAT WAY CAN WE MAKE OURSELVES HAPPY?

Most of people have difficulties in defining what happiness is. So do I. But I am sure that you know what is a happy life and how to achieve some good things in life. I would like to start by saying that happiness lies in your positive and optimistic thinking about life. Actually, happiness does not come to us by accident, because: it is not what happens to us in life that determines our happiness so much as the way we react to what happens. The universe is fair and just, we can get back from life what we put into it. Confucius said “What you would not want done to yourself, don’t do it to others.” Life is a risk: we have a choice. It is the choice between really living or merely existing. Disappointed and pessimistic losers do not take any risks because they are afraid of facing problems and danger, want to avoid responsibility, too lazy to deal with adventure, lose opportunities to make greater progress. Losers regard mistakes as such a big event while failing to recognize the positive side to make mistakes. Winners take any risks becuz the spice of life is in doing new things. They have healthy attitude forward mistakes and fairlure. Mistakes are feedback on how we are doing. When u get more feedback u continue to try more possibilities. What should be done to be happy. Always setting a goal to keep you on track. Planning ahead and having a list of what must be done and when, how they can be done. To achieve the goal, we must risk. We should make a special effort to do anything we want (the reward of a thing well done is to have done it).