The Momma’s Dom Notes: When Pleasure is Used as a Reward in BDSM Dynamics
An educated opinion on this 18+ taboo relationship subject
BDSM is considered to be a level of play that brings about a deep communication as well as trust, consent, preferences in boundaries, negotiated lifestyle and sexual practices that involve activities and erotic behaviors. This involves a menu of dynamics, practices and roles that consensually can be explored between partners. This taboo acronym explains the varying sub-headings one usually encounters in a kinky relationship. Bondage, Discipline, Dominance, Submission ~ One must include Masochism and Sadism. Please note that while this author is documenting these things from her understanding and opinion IF you reader, are considering BDSM dynamics it is NOT abuse. It is however participation between adults who have negotiated scenes and their own hard limits. Safe words should always be employed and if you find you are feeling mentally controlled in unhealthy ways, seek outside help immediately. This is not what you should be feeling. You should feel empowered. In my opinion.
In the path of BDSM, rewards exist in this power-exchanging dynamic. These rewards help to transcend sensation and bodily enjoyments to involve psychological fulfillment and emotional encouragement. When you are talking about…
