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My Selection— “Solitude Is the Richness of Self”

Bella DePaulo
Literary Selections
5 min readFeb 5, 2021

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If you are single at heart, meaning that single life is your best life, you probably love the time you have to yourself. But all sorts of people, not just the single at heart, appreciate solitude and try to make room for it in their lives.

Over the centuries, many people have written insightfully or amusingly about solitude. I want to share some of my favorite quotes here. The first set comes from Fenton Johnson’s At the Center of All Beauty: Solitude and the Creative Life. I wrote about Johnson’s inspiring ideas previously, in “Solitaries: Who they are and how they offer more than you ever imagined.” The second set of quotes is from another wonderful book, Alone Time: Four Seasons, Four Cities, and the Pleasures of Solitude, by Stephanie Rosenbloom. In the last section are a few other quotes from my collection.

Quotes from “At the Center of All Beauty: Solitude and the Creative Life,” by Fenton Johnson

1. Louisa May Alcott:

“I prefer to be a free spinster and paddle my own canoe.”

2. Amelia Earhart, to her husband in her “wedding letter”:

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“All good books are the same and when you read a good book you realize it’s already passed on to you and then that book becomes yours whatever good or bad or enjoyable in it. There are evils, sadness, people, towns and seasons there, they all become yours.” (Ernest Hemingway)

Bella DePaulo
Bella DePaulo

Written by Bella DePaulo

“America’s foremost thinker and writer on the single experience,” according to the Atlantic. SINGLE AT HEART book is a gold medal winner. www.belladepaulo.com

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