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It’s Not Really That Easy for Women to Get Laid or Date

Despite what incels might think

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Unless you’ve been living in a cave, you’ve probably heard the term incel. Incels are men who claim to be “involuntarily celibate,” because women are mean and won’t let them have access to their bodies. Incels are convinced that only about 10% of men — the Chads — are getting all the sex and not leaving any for the…




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Amber Fraley

Amber Fraley

Blogging about mental illness, narcissistic abuse & survival, feminism, politics. Essayist, journalist, novelist, wife, mom, Kansan, repro rights activist.

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