Member-only story
3 Spiritually Enriching Reasons Why God Waits to Bless His Chosen Ones with Love
#3: Availability does not equal assignment
1. Breakups Bring Clarity
Most people meet a spouse before they meet themselves.
They become so focused on their spouse’s needs, interests, and preferences that they start to lose sight of their own identity. Over time, they begin making decisions based on what their partner wants rather than what truly matters to them. As a result, they gradually fade into their spouse’s shadow.
Oh, how we mourn when that heartbreak strikes.
The pain of heartbreak is not punishment; it’s preparation. You will never be fully prepared for Godly love until you have experienced the grief of toxic love.
Sometimes heartbreak is not the enemy’s sabotage but rather Heaven’s surgery. God allows heartbreak so you can see the condition of your heart. He permits it to remove the things that are gradually poisoning your heart. God is using heartbreak to teach you to love yourself before you try to love someone else.
Heartbreak is often God’s loudest whisper that something greater is on the horizon, and the version of you that is crying over what has walked away is not yet the version who can handle…
