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3 Spiritually Sound Reasons Why God Delays Blessing Chosen People with Partnerships
#3. Purpose must precede partnership
1. Identity Is Not Defined By Relationship Status
Your worth isn’t defined by a ring, a last name, or a wedding date.
We live in a world where relationship status is treated as identity, where culture cheers louder for wedding photos than for spiritual growth, and where people are praised for finding a partner but overlooked for finding purpose.
What the world misunderstands is that marriage is not an identity; it’s an assignment.
A relationship can do two things. It can either strengthen your sense of identity or overshadow it, depending on how well you know and understand yourself.
If you don’t know who you are before entering a relationship, it’s easy to lose sight of yourself once you’re in it.
God is calling all chosen ones who are in the season of singleness to reclaim their worth from the culture’s belief that marriage is the goal.
No.
Purpose and wholeness are the main goals.
God delays love for His chosen ones, not to shame them with the silence of loneliness, but to help them…