3 Truths About Finding Love and Being Happy

You gotta stop putting people on pedestals

Kimberly Fosu
Mystic Minds
Published in
5 min readOct 26, 2022

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(Photo: Natalia Lavrinenko)

1. You Won’t Attract Love

Wait. Before you freak out, hear me out. There are concepts that will cause many to create resistance when it comes to finding love.

We are told we have a soulmate. A twin flame or something. One person who will make us truly happy and so we go out looking for it.

The problem with this method of attracting love is that trying to look for love outside of yourself is like looking around for a soul because you can’t see your soul. Just because you don’t see your soul doesn’t mean it’s not within you.

Just because you don’t have a lover doesn’t mean you don't have love. Christ died for your kind. That's love. Your family may really love you. That's love. You may have friends who will do anything for you. That's love. You may have so much love to give yourself and others, and that's love, too.

Just because you haven’t found love doesn’t mean you don’t have love.

When you believe you don’t have love, you attract those who don’t have it to give.

When you feel love even while single, you reflect love, making it so much easier to attract it.

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Kimberly Fosu
Mystic Minds

Spiritual life coach focused on spirituality, faith and inspiration. My new book "Who Am I?" is available on Amazon now. https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CW1BMHLY