6 Signs You’re Loving Someone Who Is Derailing Your Destiny

#2. Your spiritual hunger is fading

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1. The Love Shrinks Your Calling

You’re sharing fewer dreams because when you do, they’re minimized, mocked, or met with fear.

You start playing small to keep the peace.

Opportunities that once stirred your faith now feel “too ambitious,” and the version of you that once reached for more is quietly stepping back.

Purpose cannot breathe where constant minimization lives.

If your vision must dim for the connection to survive, the cost is your destiny.

Healthy love makes room for calling.

2. Your Spiritual Hunger is Fading

You used to pray, fast, and seek God with focus, but all of that got traded for “together time.”

They roll their eyes at your faith and subtly shame your spiritual practices. But you love them, and so you compromise to avoid tension.

What once convicted you now gets excused.

And because of that, your inner life is growing quieter, not because you’re at peace, but because you’re numbing out.