CHOSEN ONES
Your Life Isn’t Lacking Simply Because You Haven’t Reached the Chapter Called Marriage
You are not a half waiting to be made whole
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Your worth isn't defined by a ring, a last name, or a wedding date.
We live in a world where relationship status is treated as identity, where culture cheers louder for wedding photos than for spiritual growth, and where people are praised for finding a partner but overlooked for finding purpose.
What the world misunderstands is that marriage is not an identity; it’s an assignment.
A relationship can do two things. It can either strengthen your sense of identity or overshadow it, depending on how well you know and understand yourself.
If you don’t know who you are before entering a relationship, it’s easy to lose sight of yourself once you’re in it.
God is calling all chosen ones who are in the season of singleness to reclaim their worth from the culture’s belief that marriage is the goal.
No.
Purpose and wholeness are the main goals.
Your worth isn’t defined by a ring, a last name, or a wedding date. It’s rooted in your relationship with God.
God delays love for His chosen ones, not to shame them with the silence of loneliness, but to help them grow in the stillness of solitude. In these quiet times, you can meet and hear the voice of your highest self; you can better hear the Universe guiding you, and a future partnership becomes a blessing, not an obsession. From that sacred place, a relationship becomes a gift rather than an idol.
Until you let go of the need to always be needed or validated; until you dethrone the idols in your life, God will continue to delay love for you — not to deny you, but to deliver you from the bondage of the soul tie.
If you know you are chosen but you often feel overlooked, rejected, or invisible, it’s not because God has forgotten you. Instead, He is guiding you to shift your focus from them to you. From them to Him. He’s tearing down the altar of idolized relationships and drawing you into divine intimacy with Him.
You are not lesser because you are single, nor are you greater because you are married.
Your life isn’t lacking anything simply because you haven’t reached the chapter called marriage. In fact, this chapter, known as the season of singleness, is where your roots grow deep, where your soul is shaped, where your oil is pressed, and where your connection with God is forged.
Don’t despise the season, no matter how uncomfortable it may be. Wait for God to complete the work He is doing in and on you.
The most powerful love stories take time to unfold.
Timing is God’s hallmark of trust.
Don’t rush the process.
Understand that there is a time and season for everything under the sun. Don’t trade sacred spiritual growth for shallow companionship.
You are not lesser because you are single, nor are you greater because you are married. You are not a half waiting to be made whole. You are already complete.
Your identity isn’t determined by your relationship status. Your worth isn’t defined by a diamond ring, a last name, or a wedding date. It’s rooted in your relationship with God and yourself.
You are already chosen, already loved, already sealed by a covenant more powerful than any earthly vow. Stand in that truth, and when the right person arrives, they will not complete you; they will complement what God has already perfected.
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