Gentlemen, Here’s What You Need To Know About Getting A Girlfriend

Zaid K. Dahhaj
Navigating Life
Published in
3 min readNov 24, 2021

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I’ve Been In Your Shoes

I often come across young men who struggle in the context of attracting a girlfriend and cultivating a strong relationship.

You might be one of them.

It’s easy for me to understand your perspective because I was once in your shoes. A young man crippled by the neurotic drive to find somebody whom I could share a romantic connection with. A young man hungry for more experience in a realm that seemed confusing to him.

What you and other gentlemen need to realize is you’re not ready for a girlfriend because you are so attached to the outcome.

This is a bitter pill to swallow.

Funny enough, this desperate approach to building an intimate relationship is the reason why women don’t find you attractive. They sense that cowardly energy, and as a result, immediately turn the other cheek. Women want to feel desired, not like they’re needed. There’s a fine line between the two.

What You Desperately Seek Never Comes To Fruition

Life has an interesting way of giving you the desired outcome when you’re emotionally mature enough to let it go.

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Zaid K. Dahhaj
Navigating Life

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