I’m Being Dis-Abled. I’m not Disabled

A view of autism as something other than a disability.

Not Weird Just Autistic
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Photo by Sangga Rima Roman Selia on Unsplash

Am I the only one getting dizzy from looking at the picture?

Dis-abled. Disabled.

What’s the difference? Well, the first one is a verb and is something that is being done to us. We are actively being disabled; usually by the environment we’re in.

The second is an adjective and is defined as, “(of a person) having a physical or mental condition that limits movements, senses, or activities.”

In short, one describes who a person is, while the other talks about what is being done to a person.

I don’t know about you, but I have autism and I’m not disabled.

I often find myself being dis-abled, but that doesn’t mean I am disabled.

Let me give you an example.

Think of a shopping mall.

It’s crowded.

It’s noisy.

Traffic flows in random patterns.

Malls are brightly lit.

When I used to go to shopping malls I would always be panicky, and felt like I didn’t understand what was going on. The environment of the mall — all the sensory issues I just mentioned — are disabling us…

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Not Weird Just Autistic
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J.R. Reed is a late-diagnosed autism self-advocate who writes, speaks, podcasts, and livestreams. He’s also editor at Destigmatizing on Medium.