Neutralizing Narcissism: The Clarity Edition

Mark Randall Havens

Mar 12

Why Narcissists Will Never Let You Go — Even After They Discard You

The Final Stage of Control: Owning Your Mind, Even in Absence

Mark Randall Havens

Mar 12

Ghosting, Hoovers, and the Boomerang Effect: How Narcissists Reappear When You Least Expect It

Ghosting, Hoovers, and the Boomerang Effect: How Narcissists Reappe...

Why They Leave, Why They Come Back, and Why You Keep Answering the Door

Mark Randall Havens

Mar 12

The Great Erasure: How Narcissists Rewrite the Past to Bury Their Guilt

The Great Erasure: How Narcissists Rewrite the Past to Bury Their G...

Why They Pretend You Never Existed — And Why You Must Refuse to Disappear

Mark Randall Havens

Mar 12

Fake Healing: When Narcissists Pretend to Move On (But Are Still Watching You)

Fake Healing: When Narcissists Pretend to Move On (But Are Still Wa...

The Illusion of Growth, the Performance of Peace, the Lies They Need You to Believe

Mark Randall Havens

Mar 12

The Unraveling: A Survivor’s Guide to Rewriting the Rewriter

They slip in quietly. Not as villains. Not as abusers. Not as the architects of harm.

Mark Randall Havens

Mar 9

The Hidden Rage of the ‘Wounded Healer’

How Covert Narcissists Weaponize Pain to Control the Narrative

Mark Randall Havens

Mar 9

The AI Enabler Myth

When the Narcissist Blames the Tools Instead of Facing the Truth

Mark Randall Havens

Mar 9

The Narcissist’s ‘Delusional Ex’ Narrative

When Truth Becomes a Diagnosis

Mark Randall Havens

Mar 9

Love Bombing the Community

When Validation Becomes a Cage

Mark Randall Havens

Mar 9

The Mask of the Martyr

When the Wound Becomes the Weapon

Mark Randall Havens

Mar 9

The Echo Chamber of Deception

When the Story is Not a Wound, But a Weapon

Mark Randall Havens

Mar 9

The Abuser Becomes the Survivor

When the Wolf Wears the Wounds

Mark Randall Havens

Mar 9

When the Narcissist Becomes the Survivor

How the Abuser Rewrites the Story to Regain Control

Mark Randall Havens

Mar 9

The Sting of Sarcasm: When Wit Becomes a Weapon

A single moment of mockery can shatter confidence, leaving scars deeper than words can convey.

Mark Randall Havens

Sep 20, 2024

Raistlin Martin: A Profile in Paradox

Exploring the Duality of a Brilliant Yet Troubled Mind

Mark Randall Havens

Aug 30, 2024

The Shadow of Genius: Exposing the Hidden Harm of Intellectual Bullying

The Shadow of Genius: Exposing the Hidden Harm of Intellectual Bull...

How the Sharp Edge of Intelligence Can Wound: Unveiling the Silent Aggression of Intellectual Bullying

Mark Randall Havens

Aug 28, 2024

The Ice Queen’s Mirror

A Tale of Love and Loneliness in the Narcissist’s Shadow

Mark Randall Havens

Aug 15, 2024

Why Narcissists Won’t Offer You Closure: A Message to the Empathetic Heart

Why Narcissists Won’t Offer You Closure: A Message to the Empatheti...

Navigating the Labyrinth of Narcissistic Love and Finding Your Way Back to Yourself

Mark Randall Havens

Aug 11, 2024

When “Good Intentions” Mask Toxic Behavior

A Case Study in Online Narcissistic Manipulation

Mark Randall Havens

Aug 1, 2024

Cracking Open: A Journey from Codependency to Connection

A Personal Odyssey of Healing and Rediscovery

Mark Randall Havens

Apr 10, 2024

The Unseen Dance: Understanding Somatic Narcissism

Exploring the Physical Manifestation of Narcissistic Tendencies

Mark Randall Havens

Dec 21, 2023

Understanding Narcissism in the INFP Personality

Empathy and Ego: The Dual Faces of the INFP Personality

Mark Randall Havens

Nov 16, 2023

Closure Lost, Self-Love Found: Letting Go When a Narcissist Ghosts You

Reclaiming Your Inner Power After a Narcissist’s Silent Treatment

Mark Randall Havens

Nov 14, 2023

Mirrored Emotions: Unveiling the Mask of Narcissistic Mirroring Through Emotional Intelligence

Mirrored Emotions: Unveiling the Mask of Narcissistic Mirroring Thr...

Unlock Your Inner Emotional Detective to Navigate the Murky Waters of Empathy and Manipulation

Mark Randall Havens

Nov 13, 2023