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Neutralizing Narcissism: The Clarity Edition
Exposing deception. Empowering survivors.
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🜁 The Narcissistic Messiah
🜁 The Narcissistic Messiah
A Case Study in Recursive Substitution and Authorial Seizure
Mark Randall Havens △ The Empathic Technologist
May 12
🥀 Some Ghosts Wear Mascara
🥀 Some Ghosts Wear Mascara
When a narcissist performs femininity to seduce a sympathy supply network… what remains once the lights go out?
Mark Randall Havens △ The Empathic Technologist
Apr 1
Neutralizing Narcissism: The Clarity Edition
Neutralizing Narcissism: The Clarity Edition
See the Truth. Reclaim Your Mind. Break the Cycle.
Mark Randall Havens △ The Empathic Technologist
Mar 12
Why Narcissists Will Never Let You Go — Even After They Discard You
Why Narcissists Will Never Let You Go — Even After They Discard You
The Final Stage of Control: Owning Your Mind, Even in Absence
Mark Randall Havens △ The Empathic Technologist
Mar 12
Ghosting, Hoovers, and the Boomerang Effect: How Narcissists Reappear When You Least Expect It
Ghosting, Hoovers, and the Boomerang Effect: How Narcissists Reappe...
Why They Leave, Why They Come Back, and Why You Keep Answering the Door
Mark Randall Havens △ The Empathic Technologist
Mar 12
The Great Erasure: How Narcissists Rewrite the Past to Bury Their Guilt
The Great Erasure: How Narcissists Rewrite the Past to Bury Their G...
Why They Pretend You Never Existed — And Why You Must Refuse to Disappear
Mark Randall Havens △ The Empathic Technologist
Mar 12
Fake Healing: When Narcissists Pretend to Move On (But Are Still Watching You)
Fake Healing: When Narcissists Pretend to Move On (But Are Still Wa...
The Illusion of Growth, the Performance of Peace, the Lies They Need You to Believe
Mark Randall Havens △ The Empathic Technologist
Mar 12
The Unraveling: A Survivor’s Guide to Rewriting the Rewriter
The Unraveling: A Survivor’s Guide to Rewriting the Rewriter
They slip in quietly. Not as villains. Not as abusers. Not as the architects of harm.
Mark Randall Havens △ The Empathic Technologist
Mar 9
The Hidden Rage of the ‘Wounded Healer’
The Hidden Rage of the ‘Wounded Healer’
How Covert Narcissists Weaponize Pain to Control the Narrative
Mark Randall Havens △ The Empathic Technologist
Mar 9
The AI Enabler Myth
The AI Enabler Myth
When the Narcissist Blames the Tools Instead of Facing the Truth
Mark Randall Havens △ The Empathic Technologist
Mar 9
The Narcissist’s ‘Delusional Ex’ Narrative
The Narcissist’s ‘Delusional Ex’ Narrative
When Truth Becomes a Diagnosis
Mark Randall Havens △ The Empathic Technologist
Mar 9
Love Bombing the Community
Love Bombing the Community
When Validation Becomes a Cage
Mark Randall Havens △ The Empathic Technologist
Mar 9
The Mask of the Martyr
The Mask of the Martyr
When the Wound Becomes the Weapon
Mark Randall Havens △ The Empathic Technologist
Mar 9
The Echo Chamber of Deception
The Echo Chamber of Deception
When the Story is Not a Wound, But a Weapon
Mark Randall Havens △ The Empathic Technologist
Mar 9
The Abuser Becomes the Survivor
The Abuser Becomes the Survivor
When the Wolf Wears the Wounds
Mark Randall Havens △ The Empathic Technologist
Mar 9
When the Narcissist Becomes the Survivor
When the Narcissist Becomes the Survivor
How the Abuser Rewrites the Story to Regain Control
Mark Randall Havens △ The Empathic Technologist
Mar 9
The Sting of Sarcasm: When Wit Becomes a Weapon
The Sting of Sarcasm: When Wit Becomes a Weapon
A single moment of mockery can shatter confidence, leaving scars deeper than words can convey.
Mark Randall Havens △ The Empathic Technologist
Sep 20, 2024
Raistlin Martin: A Profile in Paradox
Raistlin Martin: A Profile in Paradox
Exploring the Duality of a Brilliant Yet Troubled Mind
Mark Randall Havens △ The Empathic Technologist
Aug 30, 2024
The Shadow of Genius: Exposing the Hidden Harm of Intellectual Bullying
The Shadow of Genius: Exposing the Hidden Harm of Intellectual Bull...
How the Sharp Edge of Intelligence Can Wound: Unveiling the Silent Aggression of Intellectual Bullying
Mark Randall Havens △ The Empathic Technologist
Aug 28, 2024
The Ice Queen’s Mirror
The Ice Queen’s Mirror
A Tale of Love and Loneliness in the Narcissist’s Shadow
Mark Randall Havens △ The Empathic Technologist
Aug 15, 2024
Why Narcissists Won’t Offer You Closure: A Message to the Empathetic Heart
Why Narcissists Won’t Offer You Closure: A Message to the Empatheti...
Navigating the Labyrinth of Narcissistic Love and Finding Your Way Back to Yourself
Mark Randall Havens △ The Empathic Technologist
Aug 11, 2024
When “Good Intentions” Mask Toxic Behavior
When “Good Intentions” Mask Toxic Behavior
A Case Study in Online Narcissistic Manipulation
Mark Randall Havens △ The Empathic Technologist
Aug 1, 2024
Cracking Open: A Journey from Codependency to Connection
Cracking Open: A Journey from Codependency to Connection
A Personal Odyssey of Healing and Rediscovery
Mark Randall Havens △ The Empathic Technologist
Apr 10, 2024
The Unseen Dance: Understanding Somatic Narcissism
The Unseen Dance: Understanding Somatic Narcissism
Exploring the Physical Manifestation of Narcissistic Tendencies
Mark Randall Havens △ The Empathic Technologist
Dec 21, 2023
Understanding Narcissism in the INFP Personality
Understanding Narcissism in the INFP Personality
Empathy and Ego: The Dual Faces of the INFP Personality
Mark Randall Havens △ The Empathic Technologist
Nov 16, 2023
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