Velvet Rebellion
“Red Lip Theology”
Redlips don’t care. Like “red hair, don’t care”—but Louder. Sexier.
Redlips don’t care.
Like “red hair, don’t care”—but ”louder. Sexier. Unapologetic. This expression isn’t flirtation. It’s a declaration. The phrase fits perfectly on bathroom mirrors, subway walls, and the silk lining of a villain's coat.
Stop. Yes, stop.
Why must we explain the map we drew so we can survive?
Why must we offer the world a reason, as if our every motion were evidence in a trial we never asked to attend?
No.
Enough.
The world, always blind and demanding, does not deserve your reasons. It has never earned your softness.
What it deserves — if anything — is your flame. Your refusal. Your unwavering gaze remains unblinking even as their deceptions unravel.
Ask yourself — when did you last see a man apologize for his shadow, the way it loomed across your light, uninvited?
Exactly.
And still — you apologize for casting any shade at all. You apologize for occupying space that was never theirs to begin with. You apologize for speaking when silence might have pleased them more.
And for what? To be liked?
Are you trying to make yourself palatable?
Do you want to fade into obscurity?
You are not glass. You are not the surface upon which their egos preen.
No, my darling — you are the hand that holds the mirror, unyielding, glorious, and honest.
And it is honesty that terrifies them.
You stopped smiling.
Stopped nodding.
Stopped offering your flesh as a cushion.
You began to speak.
You began to burn.
And in that moment — you became their villain.
The word "villain" flows effortlessly from your mouth, akin to the taste of spoiled wine.
Villain.
It's not your cruelty, but your uncontrollable nature that sets you apart.
They preferred you hushed, trimmed, and starved.
They could stomach you when you shrank.
But the moment you swelled — into fire, into force, into something with sharp edges and unsent letters — you became dangerous.
And oh, my love, isn’t that delicious?
Wear it.
Wear it like silk.
Like armor.
Like memory.
Let it cling to your skin and remind them that they cannot tame what they cannot touch.
What is the fear they experience? It is envy dressed in judgment.
Your confidence sings in a register they never learned to hear without flinching.
You do not walk.
You arrive.
And the air changes.
Yes, they call you dramatic.
But what is drama if not truth clothed in volume?
They call you chaos, but darling — you call it clarity.
You are not here to soothe. You are not their therapist. You are not a sponge for their guilt. You are not a stop on their healing tour. You are not their mother, their muse, or their mirror.
You are not here to hold their shame.
You are here to set fire to the stories that made them comfortable.
You are here to walk into the storm, laughing, coat undone.
You are not revenge. You are the lesson that follows it.
They named you cruel when you chose your own peace.
They called you arrogant when you stopped begging for permission.
They said you were too much because they could never carry even half of what you hold.
Let them talk. Let them shrink back to their little truths.
You are not the villain they imagine.
You are the awakening they weren’t ready for.
And darkness — sweet, loyal darkness — you do not flee from it.
You light a cigarette.
You pour the wine.
You wear it like velvet.
Because you're not afraid to see all of yourself.
You have the courage to face your inner demons head-on.
You cradle your grief until it sings.
This world, obsessed with its neat endings and soft-spoken women, will call your roar a mistake.
Let them.
Let them write stories where you are the downfall.
They will never know that you were always on the rise.
You are the prophecy.
You are the mirror they dare not touch.
You are what happens when a woman remembers —
She was never meant to be small.
You are what happens when a woman remembers — She was never meant to be small.
She is not a whisper. She is not a background character in a world of gray suits and louder voices. She does not exhale after a man has spoken.
She is the breath before — the one that silences the room.
Let them say she is vain.
Let them call her bold.
Let them mock the curve of her mouth, the red lacquer of her lips, as if color were an invitation, as if beauty were a breach.
They will never understand:
The red lip is warpaint.
The stiletto is a sculpture.
The gaze—unwavering—is a cathedral.
She is not trying to be beautiful for them.
She is trying to remember herself.
Every sharp edge, every untamed thought, every curve that refused to flatten into acceptable.
Self-love is not a poem written in soft ink and softer sighs.
It is a blade.
It is resurrection.
It is the morning; she wakes and says,
“Even if no one claps, I will dance.”
“Even if no one stays, I will still stay with me.”
To be a woman who dares to love herself out loud — to adorn, to strut, to stretch, to say yes only when she means it and no without guilt — is to be accused of witchcraft in a world that still burns witches.
Let them strike the match.
Let them name her difficult, impossible, and intimidating.
She does not shrink to fit the frame.
She paints the frame around herself, gold-leafed and blazing.
Because weakness?
Weakness is not in weeping.
Weakness is in waiting for permission.
And she no longer waits.
She wraps her arms around the parts they taught her to hide.
She has legs that rumble.
She speaks with a voice that pierces.
Her wish takes up too much space.
She names them holy.
She is not broken.
She is whole and hungry and she is unapologetically alive.
She is the woman who chooses herself every single time.
And when the world calls that selfish,
She smiles.
And replies,
“Yes. And?”
xx
Mandi
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