15 Best Ways To Improve Your Personality in 2024
Life is a journey, and the goal is to improve every day.
“I use bits and pieces of others’ personalities to form my own.”- Kurt Cobain.
We’ve all made mistakes in our lives that haven’t precisely reflected well on us, such as bullying someone in school or making a seemingly harmless white lie. However, you’re likely to have felt some remorse and grown due to the scenario.
I’m just a regular man trying to improve my professional and personal life. I’ll never be flawless, but that won’t stop me from trying.
Here are 15 ways to make the most of yourself if you want to continue to grow as a person.
1. Give yourself a compliment
Take a few minutes every morning before you begin your day to compliment yourself.
Giving yourself a little emotional boost will make you happy, whether you compliment your outfit, haircut, or how you recently completed a task using your unique skill sets.
And when you’re happy with yourself, it’s contagious to those around you. Tony Robbins, a motivational speaker, has a mantra that he repeats to himself every day to help him perform at his best.
2. Make No Excuses
Blaming your spouse, boss, or clients is pointless and will get you nowhere.
Instead of blaming others or making excuses for your lack of happiness or success in your personal or professional life, own your mistakes and learn from them. You will become a better person if you do this.
My life began to turn around when I accepted my flaws and shortcomings. My relationship with my wife improved as I became happier and healthier. We’re happier than we’ve ever been.
3. Let Go of Your Anger
It is easier said than done to let go of anger. While anger is a perfectly normal emotion, it must not be allowed to fester. When this happens, you may make rash decisions, and, more importantly, your health may suffer as a result.
According to research, suppressed anger can lead to digestive issues, difficulty sleeping, and even heart disease.
Roya R. Rad, MA, PsyD, recommends writing down your feelings, praying or meditating, or starting to manage your thoughts to help you let go of your anger.
4. Exercise Forgiveness
Joyce Marter, LCPC, recommends forgiving and letting go of resentment. She observes,
“If for no other reason than to free yourself from the negative experiences of the past, forgive. Spend some time meditating and thanking God for the wisdom and knowledge you’ve gained through your suffering. ‘I forgive you and I release you,’ repeat to yourself.”
5. Be Direct and Honest
How would you react if a loved one or business partner deceived you? You’d probably consider that a betrayal of your trust. If you want to be a better person in your personal or professional life, you should always tell the truth and state your point as clearly as possible. Learn to openly and honestly express your thoughts, feelings, and ideas.
6. Be Supportive
Whether it’s giving up your subway seat to an elderly person, assisting a coworker on a project, or carrying in the groceries when your spouse returns from the store, being helpful is one of the simplest and most effective ways to practise becoming a better person.
I’ve discovered that the more I help others, the better I feel about myself and everyone else.
7. Pay Attention to Others
According to Lifehack’s Jeet Banerjee,
“listening to people and giving everyone a voice is one of the greatest things you can do.”
He goes on to say that “Because I took the time to listen to people, I was able to meet some of the most amazing people, close some of the biggest deals, and develop connections that will last a lifetime. Being a good listener can have a positive impact on your life.”
8. Act on a local level.
It may not seem like much, but supporting a local cause, donating clothes, or shopping at local farmers’ markets or businesses are all simple ways to help your community.
You may not be able to save the world, but you may be able to make a difference in your own backyard.
Learn about and care about your community.
9. Always Be Courteous
How much effort does it take to say “Thank you” or hold the elevator door open for someone? Not much at all. On the other hand, these acts of kindness can brighten someone’s day.
I decided a few years ago that it doesn’t matter if someone is insulting, condescending, or worse. My behaviour will not be influenced by how others behave.
10. Be True to Yourself
Tiffany Mason of Lifehack has five excellent reasons why you should be yourself.
These include aligning yourself with your values and beliefs, establishing your identity, developing courage, establishing boundaries, and finding focus and direction.
11. Be open to new experiences.
You should always be open to change, whether it’s trying a new restaurant, travelling to an unknown part of the world, or doing something that has always scared you.
This allows you to grow because you are exposed to new experiences.
If you are not afraid of change, it will help you be high functioning and self-confident.
12. Show Respect
What if you had just cleaned your house and someone came in and tracked mud all over it? You’d probably be annoyed that they hadn’t removed their shoes. Take this mindset and apply it to your daily life. For example, don’t leave trash or cigarette butts on the floor of public restrooms or sidewalks if someone else will clean it up.
Respect the time, thoughts, ideas, lifestyles, feelings, work, and everything else of others.
You don’t have to agree with everything, but people have a right to their opinions, and yours may or may not be correct.
13. Do not show up empty-handed.
Are you going to a party at a friend’s place this weekend? Make sure you don’t show up empty-handed. Even if you’ve been assured that there will be plenty of food and drink, bring a small token of your appreciation for being invited.
14. Inform Yourself
If you don’t understand why one country is invading another, take the time to learn about the current situation. Inquire about the thoughts of someone who has a personal connection to the event.
Remember that we are all interconnected, and being aware of different cultures, people, and lives can help you become a more well-rounded individual.
This will also assist you in comprehending points of view that differ from your own.
15. Surprising Others
What does it feel like to make someone happy? Isn’t it a good feeling? Every now and then, surprise your loved ones or coworkers with a gift, a night out on the town, or by offering assistance when you know they could use it.
It takes time to become a better person, but it is possible. Believe in yourself and know that you can do it!
What other suggestions do you have for becoming a better person?
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