It’s Okay to Be Yourself: A Letter to Writers Who Are Afraid to Be Different

Is this you?

Jenni Delos Reyes
New Writers Welcome
3 min readOct 3, 2023

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There was a time when I’d read loads of articles about becoming a successful writer.

I’d try to imitate them, following their rules and routines. I thought that’s what it took to be a “real” writer.

But it never quite felt right.

I wasn’t being me.

I wasn’t telling my stories, sharing my quirks, and revealing my passions.

I was trying to fit into a mold that wasn’t mine, and my writing showed it. It lacked the spark that makes writing truly awesome.

But then, I asked myself a big question: “Am I being true to who I am?

The answer wasn’t a quick “yes.” It kicked off a journey of self-discovery, a quest to find my real writer’s voice.

So, what did I do?

I put away my phone, found a quiet spot, and sat in silence. I gave myself the gift of reflection, jotting down my thoughts and being completely honest with myself.

In that peaceful moment, I started to uncover the real me, the writer I was meant to be.

I began to write from my heart, sharing my own stories, no matter how quirky or unusual they were.

I dropped my defenses and honestly talked about both my wins and losses, without worrying about what others might think.

You know what? It felt amazing, like setting my true self free.

The transformation

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As I embraced my true writer self, something magical happened.

My words began to dance off the page. Readers started connecting with my writing on a whole new level.

They could feel the authenticity and passion in my words, and it touched their hearts.

I stopped chasing approval from others and focused on the pure joy of writing.

I wrote because it lit up my soul, because it was a piece of me on paper.

And you know what? I became a better, happier, and more fulfilled writer.

Now, here’s a challenge for you!

Put away your phone, find a peaceful nook, and sit in blissful silence.

Don’t rush it; give yourself the gift of time.

Pen down your thoughts, take a deep dive into your inner self, sleep on it, and be brutally honest with yourself.

Deep inside, you’ll find your answer.

The power of authenticity

Discovering my real writer’s voice felt like finding a precious gem tucked deep inside me.

It wasn’t about trying to please others or fitting into someone else’s idea of writing. It was about celebrating my uniqueness, quirks and all.

When you let go of the need for validation and simply write from the heart, your words become a powerful force.

They resonate with readers because they’re genuine, relatable, and honest.

I hope this journey of mine inspires you to start your own adventure in the world of writing.

Embrace your unique voice, your quirks, and your stories.

Write with passion and authenticity.

Be unapologetically you, and you’ll unlock the transformative power of writing.

Now, go ahead and pen down your unique story. Inspire the world with your authenticity.

So there you have it, enjoyed the ride, and I can’t wait to see where your own journey takes you.

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I wish you joy, progress, and excitement on your journey.

Talk to you soon!

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Jenni Delos Reyes
New Writers Welcome

Email copywriting ninja and personal growth enthusiast. Follow me for inspiration and actionable advice! jennidelosreyes.substack.com