Spending Time Alone, Working On Myself Made Me Unstoppable
Now, it’s your turn
I’m glad that I chose to suffer alone because it made me stronger.
The days when I was confused, failed, and rejected, but still had the drive to conquer my goals — made me unstoppable.
Recently, my girlfriend left me after 6 years. The woman I loved the most is now gone. I’m in pain. I miss her every day.
But I’m still fine because those lonely hours prove I can get through anything If I put my mind to something.
In this blog, I’ll share how spending time alone can transform your life.
You Build Thicker Skin
There are two versions of you:
One that loves partying, having fun, and telling people your sad and sob stories.
And then second — addicted to growth, prefers monk mode, and take responsibility of his life.
Who will build the thicker skin? You’re right. So, why be a person who gives comfort but hardly gets results? Scared. I was too. But, in the end, who’s gonna dominate? It’s you. So, get to work.
Life is hard. Everything worthwhile requires sweat and pain.
So, why bother to seek comfort? If everything uphill requires discomfort.
You’ve proof at every step that you’re the man
Every time I face any rock bottom, I revisit my past wins, and those moments of suffering and overcoming fears remind me that I’m the man.
I don’t know how I’d push myself if I didn’t go through the lonely period. When I was questioning myself — will it be worth it? Those rough days always helped me realize if you’ve done it in the past, you can do it now.
So, get your shit together. And start overcoming your fears, and let them help you to overcome the challenges.
What do you think?
Conclusion
You might think, why should I suffer if we can live a comfortable life? Good. Go ahead. But then, don’t complain, I’m not growing.
If you want something, isolate yourself and start building.
There is no easy way out.