The Single Most Definite Sign That You’re Finally Ready For A Beautiful Long-term Relationship

According to self-love advocate and author of Wired For Self-love who has manifested this type of relationship

Lata Kokal (formerly Neha Sonney)
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6 min readMar 8, 2022

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There’s one and only one thing that will determine the fate of your relationship — the existence of it as well as its beauty and longevity.

What is the one thing? Tell us already.

When I was growing up, I watched how my father remained calm as my mother complained about stuff. I never saw them argue. It was usually my mother who was upset while my dad tried to reason with her. He never tried to overpower the conversation.

Here’s what I learned (and implement in my relationships) :

When one person is angry or upset, the other must remain calm. Because when emotions take over someone, they cannot think straight. The logical mind shuts down. It is no use to reason with someone when they are upset because in that moment they have no capacity to listen to anyone. Their mind is looking to resolve that emotion. If they pose no danger, it’s okay to be around them, witness them, not respond and not take anything they say personally.

Witness someone’s emotions without

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Lata Kokal (formerly Neha Sonney)
Lata Kokal (formerly Neha Sonney)

Written by Lata Kokal (formerly Neha Sonney)

Heals narcissistic abuse, tries not to worry much & defuses emotional time bombs for fun | Free resources: NehaSonney.Gumroad.com | IG & YT @latakokalofficial

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