Why Can’t Men Say ‘I Love You’ to Each Other?

It doesn’t count if you add ‘bro’ or ‘man’ to the end

Illustration: Brian Rhea

By Ricardo F. Jaramillo

I’m having L-word troubles, but my troubles don’t involve a lover. There’s no romance or sex in this. No flowers, candles or dancing. My L-word troubles are with my boy, my best friend, Kichi. I’ve told him I love him probably five or six times now…

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