Spaceholding Is (r)Evolutionary! — Feeling is Activism
What can I do for you today, I asked. As the words started flowing from her mouth I could see the sadness showing itself, pouring from the place it had been hiding previously.
One after the other, the words, emotions and feelings unfold into the space that has been created for this purpose, to heal and feel.
Questions are planted into the golden cube that has previously been declared, there is no reason for the questions they are just there, showing up, also one after the other. A delicate dance between the space, the spaceholder and the person happens. So close, so intimately close. You move, I move. You stop, I stop. I am where you are.
We are together co-creating an extraordinary space. Sounds come. Movements. Old decisions.
And while staying there through an act of Love the trigger point reveals itself, in a very subtle way like an itching desperately wanting to be scratched.
Breathe in, breathe out. The point is touched, the crack happens and where before there was stagnation energy starts flowing. More sounds. More movement. More feelings. More emotions.
It is the tipping point.
Holding space for feelings and emotions is a revolutionary act of love for Love itself. Holding space for the Cracks to happen is being an Activist for change and Transformation.
In a culture where feeling is seen as bad, taking a stand for feelings and creating spaces for humans to feel is to create something completely different from what is right now, it is to empower men and women into the path of their full potential.
To feel is revolutionary. To navigate feelings is evolutionary. To hold the space through which emotions reveal themselves is Next Culture Activism!
By relating to your Fear, your Sadness, your Anger and your Joy you are taking your power back and entering the domains of what Humans are truly capable of.
Why would it be wrong to feel something that comes from you? Why would it be wrong to be afraid? Or sad? It is like cutting your own arm except these ones you don’t actually see them with your physical eyes but that doesn’t mean that nothing is happening to you.
Reclaiming your feelings and emotions is reclaiming your authority and aliveness.
In your feelings lives the long forgotten Alchemy, the Magic to Create and move through the Worlds.
What are you feeling?