Domestic/Partner Violence and Defining Healthy Relationships Among College Women

Heather Suraci
NJ Spark
Published in
4 min readApr 24, 2024

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Domestic/partner violence and the understanding of healthy relationships are critical issues, particularly among college women. The Office for Violence Prevention and Victim Assistance (VPVA) at Rutgers University plays a crucial role in supporting women who have experienced dating violence. Dating violence, unfortunately, is a prevalent issue that affects individuals of all genders, but it disproportionately impacts women. VPVA recognizes the unique challenges faced by women in such situations and provides a range of services aimed at helping them navigate and recover from these traumatic experiences. However, many young women at Rutgers may be unaware of the services provided by VPVA. It is significant to address the stigma of dating violence and identify unhealthy relationships among young women on campus. Promoting the work VPVA does on campus through a visual art project would positively impact the women on campus as they would be better informed about the resources about dating violence and strategies for promoting healthy relationships.

According to a study conducted by KnowledgePanel, nearly 1 in 3 college women have been in an abusive dating situation (KnowledgePanel, 2011). The sample of women in the KnowledgePanel report came from 50,000 women across the United States who were between the ages of 18–29 and were enrolled in a collegiate study program. The issue of domestic/partner violence affects individuals across diverse demographics, but college women are particularly vulnerable. Statistics reveal alarming rates of intimate partner violence among college-aged women, at Rutgers alone, the 2022 crime statistics reveal 64 incidences of domestic violence occurred on campus property (Rutgers University, 2022). This violence not only inflicts physical harm but also has profound psychological and emotional effects, hindering academic performance and overall well-being.

Several factors contribute to the prevalence of domestic/partner violence among college women. These include a lack of awareness regarding healthy relationship dynamics as well as the reluctance to seek help due to fear or stigma. According to the American Psychiatric Association, “Being a victim of domestic violence is linked to increased risk for posttraumatic stress disorder (PTSD), depression and suicide. Exposure to traumatic events can lead to stress, fear, and isolation, which may lead to depression and suicidal thoughts or behavior” (APA, 2024). Additionally, the transition to college often coincides with newfound independence and exploration of romantic relationships, increasing susceptibility to unhealthy dynamics.

Educating college women about healthy relationships is paramount. A healthy relationship is characterized by mutual respect, trust, effective communication, and the absence of violence or coercion. It involves autonomy and equality, where both partners feel valued and supported in pursuing their goals and interests. By understanding the dynamics of abusive relationships, they can better identify red flags such as controlling behavior, manipulation, and isolation tactics employed by abusers (National Domestic Abuse Hotline, 2023). This awareness can help young adults avoid becoming trapped in abusive relationships, thereby reducing their risk of experiencing Colleges and universities play a crucial role in promoting healthy relationships among students.

Overall, being aware of domestic violence issues empowers college women to navigate relationships safely, seek support when needed, and contribute to creating a culture of respect and non-violence within their communities. This awareness is not only beneficial for their own well-being but also for the well-being of those around them, making it an essential aspect of their personal and social development. At Rutgers, VPVA is actively involved in prevention efforts aimed at addressing the root causes of dating violence and fostering a culture of respect and healthy relationships. Through educational programs, workshops, and awareness campaigns, VPVA strives to raise awareness about the prevalence of dating violence, challenge harmful societal attitudes and norms, and promote healthy relationship dynamics. Promoting the message of VPVA through a visual art project like collaborating with local artists to create murals on campus that depict messages of support for survivors of dating violence would promote a culture of respect and consent. A mural prominently displayed on campus can serve as a highly visible tool for raising awareness about VPVA’s services and the resources they offer to survivors of violence. It can attract the attention of students, faculty, staff, and visitors, effectively spreading the message of support and advocacy. Additionally, by prominently featuring VPVA’s contact information on the mural, such as hotline numbers or website links, individuals who may be experiencing dating violence or know someone who is can easily access resources and support. This promotes help-seeking behaviors and encourages individuals to reach out for assistance when needed.

Furthermore, a mural promoting the Office for Violence Prevention and Victim Assistance at Rutgers University can serve as a powerful tool for raising awareness, educating the community, fostering solidarity, and promoting a campus culture that prioritizes the well-being and support of women who may be affected by domestic violence.

References:

American Psychiatric Association. (2024). Domestic violence. Psychiatry.org — Domestic Violence. https://www.psychiatry.org/patients-families/domestic-violence

Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC). (2020). Intimate Partner Violence. Retrieved from https://www.cdc.gov/violenceprevention/intimatepartnerviolence/index.html

KnowledgePanel. (2011). College Dating and Abuse. loveisrespect.org. https://www.loveisrespect.org/pdf

National Domestic Abuse Hotline. (2023). Warning Signs of Abuse. https://www.thehotline.org/identify-abuse/domestic-abuse

Rutgers University. (2022). Rutgers University — New Brunswick crime statistics. https://ipo.rutgers.edu/rupd/crime-stats-nb

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